We Know It Can Feel Overwhelming

We’ve felt a lot of heaviness lately. Some days, it seems like no matter how hard you work, the numbers still don’t add up. You’re doing everything right. Showing up early. Staying late. Trying to get ahead. And yet it still feels like you’re just treading water.

It’s not just about the money. It’s the stress that sneaks in when you’re trying to sleep. The tension that shows up over breakfast when you're already thinking about next season. 

We’ve been having more and more of those conversations lately. People who’ve been through droughts, floods, tough markets, and now they’re trying to figure out if they qualify for disaster aid or tax relief and wondering if it even makes a difference.

The thing is, sometimes it does make a difference. But only if someone takes the time to look closely.

There’s been a lot of confusion around recent programs and payments, more questions than answers, and some decisions that don’t always feel fair. We’re seeing producers get caught in red tape and technicalities that don’t reflect the reality of their operation or effort. It’s frustrating, and it’s okay to say that out loud.

If you’re married and your spouse works off the farm, your eligibility could look very different depending on how the numbers are reviewed. Especially in separate property states, how ownership is structured and whose name is on what can completely change the outcome. We've seen it happen.

And sometimes, the complexity isn’t just in the paperwork. It's in the people. We know some of you are navigating tough situations with family, trying to protect relationships while also protecting assets. That’s a grey area no spreadsheet can solve. There isn’t always a clear right or wrong, and it’s hard to make everyone happy. But those conversations matter, and how you handle them matters. You’re not the only one feeling the weight of that.

You’re the one people call when something breaks. When someone’s in a bind. When something needs fixing, whether it’s labor or life. You’re the one they count on. But when you need something? Sometimes it feels like no one has the time. That kind of quiet can get heavy, even for someone strong enough to carry it.

So here’s what we want you to hear:
You’re not doing anything wrong.
This is hard.
And there are tools that can help — it just takes a little digging. 

We don’t just skim the surface. We roll up our sleeves and look under the hood. Because if there’s a path forward, whether it’s through better structure, smarter strategy, or a program you didn’t know applied, we want to help you find it.

You don’t have to figure it all out alone.

Carman Hicks

Carman Hicks, a small-town Oklahoma native, brings her passion for agriculture and expertise in social media, design, and brand management to Empire Ag. With a degree in Agricultural Communications and Agribusiness from Oklahoma State University, Carman’s dedication to the ag industry shines through her work amplifying the voices of farmers, ranchers, and ag businesses. She’s excited to contribute to the legacy of agriculture by sharing impactful stories and creating meaningful connections.

https://youragempire.com

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